🎉 Well, well, well... looks like we've got a classic case of a surprise party gone wrong! 😬 Our birthday girl, let's call her the Veggie Patch Grandma, made it crystal clear that she wanted ZERO birthday festivities. 🙅♀️ But her housemate, who we'll dub the Party Planner from Hell, decided to ignore her wishes and throw a rager anyway! 🎊 Buckle up, folks, because this birthday tale is about to get wild! 🎢
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🎂 Birthday Blues: The Unwanted Surprise Party 😒
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🙅♀️ Introverted Birthday Girl: No Parties, Please! 🙏
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🏠 Housemate Drama: Ignoring Birthday Wishes 😡
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🍽️ Perfect Birthday Dinner with Parents 🍷
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😲 Surprise! The Party Nobody Wanted 🎉
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🕰️ Party All Night Long: No Sleep Till Dawn 😴
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😠 Confronting the Housemate: Honesty is the Best Policy 🗣️
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🙄 Housemate's Lame Excuses: "You Used to Be Fun" 🙄
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🚗 Housemate Bails: Off to See a F--k Buddy 🙈
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😬 Tense Times: Seeking Refuge at Parents' Place 🏡
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🤔 AITA? Should I Have Pretended to Want the Party? 🎭
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🎂 The Birthday Bash Blowout: Veggie Patch Grandma vs. Party Planner from Hell 😈
So, the Veggie Patch Grandma comes home from a lovely dinner with her parents, only to find a full-blown surprise party waiting for her! 😱 The Party Planner from Hell invited everyone and their mother, except for the birthday girl's actual close friends. 🙄 The party raged on until the wee hours of the morning, leaving our poor Veggie Patch Grandma sleepless and seething. 😡 When confronted, the Party Planner from Hell had the audacity to call her boring and claim she "used to be fun." 🙄 Then, he bailed to see a f--k buddy, leaving the birthday girl to clean up the mess. 🙈 Now, the Veggie Patch Grandma is seeking refuge at her parents' place, wondering if she's the a**hole for not pretending to want the party. 🤔 Let's see what the internet has to say about this birthday disaster! 🍿
Ignoring boundaries and refusing responsibility makes them the a**hole.
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Unwanted party at housemate's place? Time to move out! 😡🤬
traptwo | traptwo
Being honest that he failed in being nice. NTA 👍
hledac | hledac
Housemate disregards 'no party' rule, NTA for standing up.
Suspicious_Dragonfly | Suspicious_Dragonfly
Birthday turned into unwanted party by manipulative housemate. NTA.
Rexam14 | Rexam14
Surprise parties can be a hit or miss. NTA wins.
iamthelizardqueen | iamthelizardqueen
Housemate ignores request for no party, NTA.
ellejaypea | ellejaypea
Friend ignores boundaries and won't take responsibility. Cut ties?
Skull_Bearer56 | Skull_Bearer56
Housemate throws wild party despite objections. NTA, he's an asshole.
Silamy | Silamy
Roommate throws party against objections - NTA
fadedplatinum | fadedplatinum
Roommate's birthday party was really for himself, NTA.
420uwuwotsthis666 | 420uwuwotsthis666
Housemate throws unwanted party, leaves OP to clean up. NTA.
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Housemate throws party for himself, not OP. NTA.
Jay-Dee-British | Jay-Dee-British
Husband throws surprise party despite wife's objections 😢
HJP_123 | HJP_123
Confused friends let OP attend a party they knew she'd hate 😕
girlwithdog_79 | girlwithdog_79
Housemate ignores request for no party - commenter calls out stupidity. NTA.
DIVIDEND_OVERDOSE | DIVIDEND_OVERDOSE
Stand your ground! NTA 💪
asmeeks1 | asmeeks1
Roommate throws unwanted birthday party, OP not the a**hole 🎉
Yurigasaki | Yurigasaki
Roommate uses birthday as excuse for party and gets mad.
NinjaSarBear | NinjaSarBear
Suggests hilarious revenge on oblivious roommate who threw party. 😂
mandichaos | mandichaos
Sassy response to party invite leads to NTA ruling. 😎
Dogsarefuckinggreat | Dogsarefuckinggreat
Introverted commenter sympathizes with OP's struggle to avoid unwanted birthday party.
GhostWCoffee | GhostWCoffee
Birthday party drama: Commenter defends wild party-thrower's intentions
Cleonce12 | Cleonce12
Setting boundaries is important, NTA for standing up for yourself. 🙌
kkab4300 | kkab4300
Set boundaries and communicate calmly to improve relationship with housemate. NTA
grixisSeller | grixisSeller
Housemate throws unwanted party. Commenter calls him a 'dick'
Queeniac | Queeniac
Find a new housemate who shares your party preferences. 👍
Cici660 | Cici660
Celebrate your birthday your way! Don't let others dictate 🎉
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Roommate throws unwanted party, commenter relates and supports OP.
a_muffin97 | a_muffin97
When a well-intentioned gift goes wrong... 😱
suicidemeteor | suicidemeteor
When a birthday party is just an excuse to party 🎉
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NTA stands up for respecting boundaries at wild party.
Simen155 | Simen155
Housemate throws a party for himself and leaves OP to clean. NTA 😎
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Former husband threw surprise party despite objections, still annoyed. NTA.
parisinthesoringtime | parisinthesoringtime
Housemate throws unwanted party, gets mad when confronted. NTA.
griseldabean | griseldabean
Surprise party gone wrong, blame game begins 🎉🤔🤷
Grantoine | Grantoine
Set boundaries and move out. 🚪👋
Biologerin | Biologerin
Roommate throws surprise party despite objections, gets mad when refused. NTA
Gracier1123 | Gracier1123
Roommate throws selfish party, doesn't help clean up. NTA.
squish-squish-beep | squish-squish-beep
Respecting someone's wishes is important 👍
fresh-oxygen | fresh-oxygen
Selfish housemate? Move out or deal with lack of empathy.
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Respecting boundaries is key! NTA handled it gracefully 👍
DioBrandoWRYYYYYYYYY | DioBrandoWRYYYYYYYYY
A close friend didn't attend to support OP's objections. ❌
TheCuriousCur | TheCuriousCur
Avoiding unwanted surprises and attention 🙅♂️
Curtisziraa | Curtisziraa
Respect boundaries and consent. Don't use someone's birthday as excuse. 🚫
Cactilove | Cactilove
Stand your ground and ditch the messy roommate. 🚫
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Boundaries ignored, party thrown against wishes. NTA confirmed 👍
ellahood2003 | ellahood2003
Housemate's selfish behavior towards introverted roommate 🙄
BabserellaWT | BabserellaWT
Housemate ignores boundaries, ruins birthday. Commenter relates with empathy.
sssciencegirl51 | sssciencegirl51
Friends knew OP didn't want party, housemate used OP as excuse 🤦
Stillwater215 | Stillwater215
Party-loving housemate ignores objections, throws wild bash 🎉
explodingwhale17 | explodingwhale17
Roommate throws unwanted party, gets mad when not appreciated 🤷♂️
DigitalPelvis | DigitalPelvis
NTA for being mad but don't let it ruin relationship. 🤪
thatonegirlinflannel | thatonegirlinflannel
Housemate disrespects birthday wishes and leaves OP with cleaning. 😒
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Roommate throws party despite objections, but OP is NTA
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Clear NTA comment with supportive tone and emphasis on communication.
averagecryptid | averagecryptid
Roommate throws party against her wishes; invites own friends; NTA.
Emberwraith | Emberwraith
Housemate ignored boundaries, NTA suggests finding new housing arrangement 🚫
volupturex | volupturex
How to deal with a passive-aggressive roommate 🤔
literal-hitler | literal-hitler
Roommate ignored boundary, didn't help clean after wild party. NTA.
grapeappreciator | grapeappreciator
