Engagement Ring NIGHTMARE - This Jeweler's Fiancé Went Rogue! 😱💔

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🤔💍 Buckle up, folks! We've got a real ring-a-ding-ding of a dilemma on our hands! 😱 Our lovely goldsmith gal has been dreaming of crafting her perfect engagement ring, but her fiancé had other plans! 💍 Despite their previous agreement, he surprised her with a ring that's the opposite of everything she wanted! 😲 Now, she's left wondering if she's being an ungrateful bridezilla or if her fiancé missed the mark! 🤷‍♀️ Let's dive into this glittering tale of love, tradition, and a whole lot of ring drama! 💕💍😂

💍 Goldsmith Gal's Ring Dilemma! 😱

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💑 Couple's Marriage Talks: Ring Revelations! 💍

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🛠️ Crafting the Perfect Ring: Goldsmith's Vision! ✨

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💕 Fiancé Agrees: Unconventional but Romantic! 😍

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💍 NYE Proposal: Surprise Ring Reveal! 😲

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😱 Not the Dream Ring: Goldsmith's Disappointment! 💔

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🤐 Silent Night: Holding Back on the Big Day! 😶

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💍 Tradition vs. Agreement: Fiancé's Perspective! 🤵

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💸 Cost Concerns: Goldsmith's Practical Approach! 💰

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😠 Ungrateful Accusation: Fiancé's Frustration! 😤

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💍 Wearing It, Liking It: Goldsmith's Mantra! 👍

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🔄 Return Agreement: Fiancé's Reluctant Compromise! 😒

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🤔 AITA? Goldsmith's Dilemma! 💍

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💍 Goldsmith's Ring Woes: Is She the A-Hole? 🤔

Well, well, well! 😂 Our goldsmith gal is in quite the pickle! 🥒 She had her heart set on crafting her own perfect engagement ring, but her fiancé decided to surprise her with a traditional (and pricey!) 💸 ring that's the opposite of everything she wanted! 😱 Now, she's left wondering if she's being an ungrateful bridezilla 👰‍♀️ or if her fiancé missed the mark! 🎯 Despite their previous agreement, he's insisting she should just be happy he got her a ring at all! 💍 But our goldsmith knows what she wants and isn't afraid to speak up! 🗣️ So, what do you think? Is she the a-hole for wanting to return the ring and craft her own dream sparkler? 💍✨ Or should she just suck it up and learn to love the ring her fiancé chose? 🤔 Let's see what the internet has to say about this glittering conundrum! 😂💕

Fiancé ignores ring preferences, says "you'll learn to like it". NTA.

chocnillaswirl | chocnillaswirl

Fiancé disregards agreement, defends actions. Red flag or misunderstanding? 🤔

tatersprout | tatersprout

Custom engagement ring collaboration with SO, NTA. 💍💎

Leahthevagabond | Leahthevagabond

Fiancé calls her 'ungrateful' for wanting a ring she likes 🤔

ImStealingTheTowels | ImStealingTheTowels

Communication is key in relationships 💋📢, especially when it comes to gifts 🎁💎. Having lists of specific items works!

LiberateMainSt | LiberateMainSt

Partner disregards budget, insists on traditional ring. Red flag? 👍

NerdanelofMarred | NerdanelofMarred

Partner ignores preferences, buys hated engagement ring in name of tradition. 😕

ididitforcheese | ididitforcheese

Goldsmith saves money by making own engagement rings, NTA.

Some-Fan-670 | Some-Fan-670

Clear communication ignored, outdated gender roles. Time to reevaluate relationship. 🤔

Competitive_Cod_3843 | Competitive_Cod_3843

Fiancé breaks agreement, justifies with tradition, manipulates, entitled. Dump him! 💯

stollentrollin | stollentrollin

Jeweler's fiancé goes rogue - NTA for wanting a better ring 👍

TeacherByHeart21 | TeacherByHeart21

Take control of your ring, not the feelings of others 💎

jeremyism_ab | jeremyism_ab

User advises to reflect on the encounter and consider its implications 🤔

Quick-Suspect-9210 | Quick-Suspect-9210

"Proposing with a ring you don't like? NTA, stand your ground!" 👏

SandcastleUnicorn | SandcastleUnicorn

Fiancé ignores partner's ring preferences, expects gratitude for money spent 🤔

Dammit_Janet5 | Dammit_Janet5

Fiancé disregarded her wants for his ego, insulted and sounds abusive 🤯

leah_paigelowery | leah_paigelowery

NTA designs own ring, gets dad's replica instead – heartbreaking 💔

Irishviking716 | Irishviking716

Fiancé ignores bride-to-be's needs for engagement ring 💔

fluffymeow | fluffymeow

Partner agreed on the ring, then did the opposite. NTA 👍

TrayMc666 | TrayMc666

Choosing the engagement ring together is a thoughtful gesture ❤️

McKennasArmParty | McKennasArmParty

Jewelry designer OP deserves a ring that showcases their creativity 💎💍

Organized_Khaos | Organized_Khaos

Future husband ignored ring preference, a red flag for wedding.

eikenella415 | eikenella415

Warning sign: commenter advises against marrying unsupportive fiance 🚨

SectionExtension1411 | SectionExtension1411

Don't settle for a ring you don't like! 😱💔

Seraphinx | Seraphinx

Jeweler comments on engagement ring purchase, recommends family discount 💎

CochinNbrahma | CochinNbrahma

Disrespecting wishes in a proposal - NTA strikes back! 😱

Purrminator1974 | Purrminator1974

Don't ignore red flags during engagement 🙉 keep your eyes open 👀

JadedPin3925 | JadedPin3925

Don't ignore the red flags. Ask about peer pressure. NTA 👍

SarkyMs | SarkyMs

Don't settle for less than you deserve when it comes to rings 💍

Ladyughsalot1 | Ladyughsalot1

Fiancé disregards expert partner's preference for traditional gesture 🚩

firefly232 | firefly232

Sarcastic comment on sexism and gender roles. 🤦‍♀️

No_Application_8698 | No_Application_8698

Agreement ignored? Reconsidering the proposal? 💔 NTA

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NTA commenter shares personal experience with ex's insensitive proposal.

PotatoPixie90210 | PotatoPixie90210

Expert jeweler's fiancé ignores reasonable wish. NTA 👏

Mesapholis | Mesapholis

A cautionary tale of ignoring red flags in relationships. 🚩

Scarletwitch713 | Scarletwitch713

Proposal without ring, silversmith brother made perfect rings. NTA!

donkeyinamansuit | donkeyinamansuit

Jeweler ignores ethical beliefs and past trauma. NTA for being upset.

Effective-Ear-1757 | Effective-Ear-1757

Partner ignored input on engagement ring, NTA for speaking up 👏

ShallWeStartThen | ShallWeStartThen

Engaging together is key! NTA and a beautiful experience 😍

unluckysupernova | unluckysupernova

Clear communication is key! NTA for having preferences 👍

Winter_Dragonfly_452 | Winter_Dragonfly_452

Partner ignores wishes for engagement ring, red flag for future 🚨

grownedup | grownedup

Jeweler's fiancé ignores her engagement ring preferences, NTA 🙅‍♀️

PinaColodaSpanker | PinaColodaSpanker

Empowering women to speak up for what they want 💪🏼

aytayjay | aytayjay

Breaking tradition: NTA for not buying an engagement ring 💍

snoozebuttonkiller | snoozebuttonkiller

Fiancé disregarded her preferences and expertise for traditional gender roles. 💍

Normal-Height-8577 | Normal-Height-8577

Wearing a ring you don't like can impact your business image 💎

AechBee | AechBee

Fiancé disregarded her wishes about engagement ring. 🙅‍♀️💍

Creative-Sandwich-69 | Creative-Sandwich-69

Red flag! If he doesn't respect your career, reconsider proposal 👎

TheArtOfWarner | TheArtOfWarner

Partner ignores preference and doubles down. NTA. 👍

GoatCreature | GoatCreature

Reflect on your future with him. Life is too short. 😔

commandantskip | commandantskip

Warning of future marriage problems, prioritize own feelings. Good luck! 🙏🏻

MotherDuck123 | MotherDuck123

Expert bride-to-be knows what she wants, not a diva! 💍

Blas_Wiggans | Blas_Wiggans

Embracing tradition or outdated beliefs? Reddit debates before marriage intimacy.

MaxSpringPuma | MaxSpringPuma

Supportive comment reminds OP to prioritize her own feelings.

koolkid6996 | koolkid6996

Money isn't the issue, it's his lack of respect. NTA 👍

NS_Tulkas | NS_Tulkas

Wedding warning: fiancé ignores wants, future marriage in jeopardy. 😱

CompetitiveAd5382 | CompetitiveAd5382

Partner's disregard for wishes, possible power play. 🤔👍

Vintage-Silverbullet | Vintage-Silverbullet

A cautionary tale of ignoring your partner's wants and needs. NTA 👍

ThePatriarchyIsTrash | ThePatriarchyIsTrash

Designing the ring together is more romantic than tradition. 💍

Timely_Egg_6827 | Timely_Egg_6827

Normalize proposals without rings and go to the jeweler together. 💍

goingslowlymad87 | goingslowlymad87

Red flags galore: Jeweler's fiancé turns proposal into power play 🚨

Neither_Pop3543 | Neither_Pop3543

Partner ignoring requests for ring, red flag for future decisions. 💎

Frequent_Jellyfish69 | Frequent_Jellyfish69

Partner disregarded OP's profession and opinions on engagement ring 💍

arachnobravia | arachnobravia

Silversmith defends changing engagement ring, promotes her own craft.

millymollymel | millymollymel

Partner ignoring agreed decisions - red flag or tradition?

AggravatingPatient18 | AggravatingPatient18

Don't ignore the red flag. Have an honest conversation. 👍

katherinemma987 | katherinemma987

Partner ignores agreement, clings to obsolete tradition. NTA. 🙌

LumosNoel | LumosNoel

Fiancé's surprise proposal goes wrong, concern over trust 😱

eleanor_dashwood | eleanor_dashwood

Think twice before giving into traditional gender roles. 👮🏻‍🤷🏻‍💋

Random_night_thinker | Random_night_thinker

Red flag alert! 🚩 NTA but relationship needs a rethink.

feisty_bookworm | feisty_bookworm

"You'll learn to like it" is a terrible attitude for rings 💍

XxhumanguineapigxX | XxhumanguineapigxX

NTA, communication is key and it's important to love it 💍

Terradactyl87 | Terradactyl87

Partner's disregard for her feelings is a red flag 🚨

swillshop | swillshop

Fiancé ignores her ring preferences and calls her ungrateful 😡

xchelsie | xchelsie

Communicating preferences is key for perfect engagement ring. ❤

caffeinenbookshelves | caffeinenbookshelves

Talking about it in advance is key. NTA 👍

Keepyourelfsafe | Keepyourelfsafe

Reconsider the marriage if he can't respect your wishes. 🙅🏼

demureworm | demureworm

Fiancé ignores desires, calls her 'ungrateful' for discussing it. 🤔

aphraea | aphraea

NTA, but OP should consider their fundamental lack of respect.

elliptical-wing | elliptical-wing

Partner secretly chooses engagement ring, says 'learn to like it' 😳

twlghtsnow | twlghtsnow

Clear communication ignored, suspicious motives. NTA. 🤔

Evening-Tie-865 | Evening-Tie-865

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