I think we all look to the people around us to compare our own actions and accomplishments. It's human nature and it isn't necessarily a bad thing in a general sense.
However, a lot of us — myself very much included — have a bad habit of taking that general comparison and turning it into outright judgement of ourselves as people. Which is very unhealthy.
Whereas previous generations may have compared themselves to the people around them or to what the current media told them was good, now we have the entire world to compare ourselves too in real time.
Learning to see those drool-worthy flat lays as personal inspiration and not societal expectation is a skill that takes practice.
And one that you will never become a master of.
By knowing yourself honestly, flaws and all, you will know what you need to improve upon to feel like the best you. Regardless of whether that you matches the current popular influencer's opinion.
If you are truly inspired by something you see someone else doing, you can learn from it and find ways to incorporate the fundamental ideas into your own life.
It's about why that image sparked inspiration, jealousy, sadness, etc. in you and how you can make personal, positive changes to reflect that. It's not about the products or person in that specific image.
