I hate to be the pessimist over here, but nothing is meant to go smoothly. Like drinking coffee in a white outfit. If you don't think that's a risk, I commend you. But this is why I wear black at all costs (and also maybe because I'm still stuck in 2004 in my emo days).
Anyways, there are plenty more struggles that women deal with, and I can guarantee you'll be empathetically cringing in agony with them.