🎄 Christmas is a time for family, love, and togetherness... but what happens when your fiancé's idea of a perfect Christmas doesn't include you? 😳 After 5 years together, this bride-to-be is facing a holiday heartbreak. 💔 Her man insists on spending every Christmas with his ex-wife and daughter, leaving his future wife out in the cold. ❄️ Is this a case of putting his child first, or is he just too weak to stand up to his ex? 🤔 Buckle up, because this festive fiasco is about to get even more complicated! 🎅
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🎄 A Christmas Catastrophe: Fiancé's Ex Says I'm Not Family!
Looks like this Christmas conundrum just got even more tangled than a string of holiday lights! Our conflicted bride-to-be thought she might finally get to spend the holidays with her hubby-to-be, but his ex had other plans. 😬, until there's a ring on that finger, she's just a stranger who's not welcome at their little family celebration. Ouch! Her fiancé says maybe next year, but is that just an empty promise? The internet is divided: should she give him one more chance, or is it time to stuff this stocking full of coal and move on? Let's see what the masses have to say about this mistletoe mishap!
Discuss the future with him. If he prioritizes ex, leave.
kimmysharma | kimmysharma
Partner chooses ex over Christmas with you. What's next?
Mishy162 | Mishy162
NTAH suggests setting up a custody agreement for holidays 💍
The_Crown_And_Anchor | The_Crown_And_Anchor
Christmas with his ex is a deal breaker? 🎄❌
Broad-Discipline2360 | Broad-Discipline2360
Concerns raised about ex-wife's impact on new relationships 🤔
Ok_Bodybuilder_6936 | Ok_Bodybuilder_6936
Prioritizing his daughter is important, but he needs to consider you too. NTA 👏
Aggravating-Plum8147 | Aggravating-Plum8147
Choose someone who puts you first 💓 Throw him away 👋
Dragon_Bidness | Dragon_Bidness
Partner prioritizes ex over Christmas with current girlfriend. Gaslighting suspected.
JustMyThoughtNow | JustMyThoughtNow
Insightful comment on a sad situation 😢
FoxtrotUnicorn | FoxtrotUnicorn
Red flag! Will he prioritize his ex even after marriage?
BunnyBuns6969 | BunnyBuns6969
He wants Christmas with his ex & daughter, ignores his partner. 😒
Some_Pineapple1557 | Some_Pineapple1557
Choosing ex over you on Christmas, potential deal breaker. 💔
Accordingtowho2021 | Accordingtowho2021
Is it time to leave? 🤔
Not_Good_HappyQuinn | Not_Good_HappyQuinn
Ex-wife controlling Christmas plans, pregnant OP should give ultimatum 💔
humble-meercat | humble-meercat
Don't let him prioritize his ex over you and your kid 👏
Choice-Intention-926 | Choice-Intention-926
Future spouse excluded from Christmas plans with partner's child. 🤔
l3ex_G | l3ex_G
Pregnant and alone for Christmas? Let's talk about it.
Particular-Cheek5102 | Particular-Cheek5102
Don't be his plan B. Move on to a happier Christmas 🎄
Mcgj8689 | Mcgj8689
User questions partner's prioritization and sleeping arrangements during ex's visits.
17Miles2 | 17Miles2
Living in the past? Divorce couples work this out differently.
[deleted] | [deleted]
Curious about his job and ex's perception of their relationship?
RvrTam | RvrTam
NTA's Christmas traditions with partner, but fiance's commitment to ex is concerning.
[deleted] | [deleted]
Is he really with his ex-wife for their child?
Curious_Cheek9128 | Curious_Cheek9128
Engaged but playing house with ex? Time to break up.
KurosakiOnepiece | KurosakiOnepiece
Leave him before you're stuck with a child. 👏
5DewDrop5 | 5DewDrop5
Choose yourself 💖 You deserve a partner who chooses you.
Low_Monitor5455 | Low_Monitor5455
Divorced man's Christmas plans spark suspicion and concern.
coffeetreatrepeat | coffeetreatrepeat
Co-parenting during holidays is tricky, but partner should prioritize relationship too. ❤️
[deleted] | [deleted]
Blended family holidays can be tricky, communication is key 👍
AggravatingPatient18 | AggravatingPatient18
Suggest sending post to spouse for serious discussion 👍
bitofagrump | bitofagrump
Partner prioritizes co-parenting over relationship, not ready to move on 🤷♀️
GaHistProf | GaHistProf
Excluding significant others from Christmas with divorced parents is abnormal. NTA.
ncslazar7 | ncslazar7
NTA. A partner who refuses to compromise isn't worth keeping 💔
ValkyrieSword | ValkyrieSword
Communication is key, but he sounds more devoted to his ex. 💔
Cytwytever | Cytwytever
🚩 Pre-marriage red flag: Choosing ex over partner every Christmas
seroquel600mg | seroquel600mg
Ex's Christmas rule is unfair to new partner and child.
Ash-b13 | Ash-b13
NTA refuses to marry someone who prioritizes ex over holidays 🎄
tonidh69 | tonidh69
A tough question about Christmas and future children.
RevolutionaryDiet686 | RevolutionaryDiet686
Blended family dilemma: be #2 or move on? 😓
tehjoz | tehjoz
Navigating holidays with exes and children is tough, NTA.
El_Zapp | El_Zapp
Curious about the custody arrangement and ex's behavior 🤔
Raccoonborn | Raccoonborn
Co-parenting boundaries crossed during Christmas. 🎄
iBeFloe | iBeFloe
Is he really committed to a future with you? 🤔
Grand_Leader_8821 | Grand_Leader_8821
Partner prioritizing ex on Christmas a deal-breaker. 🚫🎄
ogo7 | ogo7
NTA commenter suggests dumping partner prioritizing ex over holidays.
Kewchiecrusader | Kewchiecrusader
Being excluded from Christmas plans with stepkids seems sketchy 🤔
DoubleT_TechGuy | DoubleT_TechGuy
Husband prioritizes ex's Christmas over wife's, OP not the a-hole.
LutherXXX | LutherXXX
Protect yourself and run 🏃🏽♀️💨
thelilpessimist | thelilpessimist
Fiancé prioritizes his ex and daughter over his future wife 😭
ProtectTheFridgeNCat | ProtectTheFridgeNCat
Dump him! Excluding you from Christmas for 5 years is rude 😠
MarsupialAbject5460 | MarsupialAbject5460
Ex's manipulation is toxic. Partner deserves better. 😡
OoSallyPauseThatGirl | OoSallyPauseThatGirl
Don't wait for next Christmas, ditch him now 🚶♀️💔
Laceyand | Laceyand
Choose yourself. It's time to move on. 💛
melmcclone | melmcclone
Red flags everywhere. Run away from this weak commitment-phobe 👋
btodoroff | btodoroff
Engaged woman seeks advice on partner's holiday plans with ex-wife 🎄
ElizaNite_ | ElizaNite_
Dump him if he won't prioritize your relationship 💔
zeiaxar | zeiaxar
Ex's behavior raises red flags for future relationship. ⚠️
Stepdynamite | Stepdynamite
Choose yourself, you deserve better 👏
shenanigansco34 | shenanigansco34
Divorced parents' facade of 'normal' Christmas for daughter won't last 😩
hollyofcwcville | hollyofcwcville
Suggests discussing boundaries with ex and new spouse together 👪
DoubleGreat007 | DoubleGreat007
Divorced parents' child offers holiday advice to conflicted partner
Typical_Nebula3227 | Typical_Nebula3227
Prioritizing daughter is fine, but fiancée should not be forced. NTA
throwawaypillbox | throwawaypillbox
Dump him and run: Christmas is for family, not exes 🎄❌
Andalucia1039 | Andalucia1039
Blended family talk needed, expecting everything to stay same is delusional 🤔
edc7 | edc7
Partner prioritizes ex over holidays with committed relationship. NTA.
RoyalZeal | RoyalZeal
Partner chooses ex over for every Christmas, NTA for reconsidering engagement.
Overall-Scholar-4676 | Overall-Scholar-4676
🛑 Don't marry him or have kids with him. 🚫
ACM915 | ACM915
A pointed question about future family plans and Christmas traditions.
Conwaydawg | Conwaydawg
Co-parenting at Christmas: A suggestion for blended families 🎄💔
Strangr_E | Strangr_E
Fiancé prioritizes ex, future uncertain. Red flag or fixable issue?
Beach_bum8 | Beach_bum8
Leave him ASAP, he doesn't care. 👍
biteme717 | biteme717
Engagement gives time to rethink relationship and discuss holiday arrangements.
Kerrypurple | Kerrypurple
Warning: Don't fall into the trap, move on 🚫
Holiday_Horse3100 | Holiday_Horse3100
You deserve better than playing second fiddle every Christmas 🎄
newlife201764 | newlife201764
Putting his ex before you and future kids is not okay 👍
NaturesVividPictures | NaturesVividPictures
Suggests joining ex and her partner for Christmas, reasonable or not?
therealstabitha | therealstabitha
Don't play second fiddle to the ex during the holidays 🎄
CatsRock25 | CatsRock25
OP is being disrespected and needs to leave this toxic relationship.
CocoCajun | CocoCajun
Prioritizing his ex over you and future kids? NTA, leave.
Knittingfairy09113 | Knittingfairy09113
User questions the logic of ex-husband staying with his ex-wife for Christmas.
brikard24 | brikard24
Navigating coparenting struggles during the holidays can be tough. 😔
SnooPeanuts666 | SnooPeanuts666
