Andy Mendoza is a barber from Connecticut who didn't know he would also be a necessary system of support, healing, and change for someone in need.
TW: domestic abuse
Andy Mendoza is a barber from Connecticut who didn't know he would also be a necessary system of support, healing, and change for someone in need.
TW: domestic abuse
He told Cafe Mom that he saw a cut on her cheek and jokingly asked if she got into a fight.
However, he didn't expect what she would tell him next.
Among a host of horrendous and brutal attacks, her boyfriend at the time had actually “forcedly shaved a section of hair off her head" before throwing her down the stairs, according to a police report.
With permission from Chelsea, he used his Instagram page to share her story and spread awareness and support to victims of domestic abuse.
He wrote, "As I cut her hair, we talked and I couldn't help but notice how nice she was, and how much she did NOT deserve what happened to her. No woman ever deserves this! My mother was a victim of abuse, and I remember it vividly! SPEAK UP AND TELL SOMEONE!"
"I asked her to raise her chin, and she built up enough strength to smile. That photo is a reflection of her strength."
Chelsea was definitely meant to walk into that salon that day and meet Andy.
If you or someone you know is affected by domestic abuse, reach out to the National Domestic Abuse Hotline for help.