I Relied on My Daughter as a Second Mom...Did I Ruin Our Relationship? 😥

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🔥 Buckle up, folks! We've got a juicy family drama on our hands! 🍿 Meet our 50-year-old protagonist, a single mom of three who's facing some serious financial struggles. 💸 Her oldest daughter, now a successful financial consultant, had to step up as a second parent during her teen years. 👧 But now, with college costs looming for the younger siblings, our mom is considering asking her wealthy daughter for help. 🙏 Will this request mend their strained relationship or tear it apart even further? 😬 Let's dive in and find out! 👀

🚨 Family Drama Alert! 🚨

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👧 Daughter Turned Babysitter 👶

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😢 Strained Mother-Daughter Relationship 😞

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🙏 Admitting Mistakes, Seeking Progress 🤝

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💬 Discussing the Past, Moving Forward 🚶‍♀️

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🎓 Daughter's Success Story 🌟

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💸 Financial Struggles and College Costs 💰

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🏦 Looming Student Debt 📚

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💭 A Mother's Controversial Request 🙋‍♀️

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🗣️ Reassurance and Open Discussion 🤲

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😡 Daughter's Angry Response 😠

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🤔 A Mother's Perspective 💭

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💸 The Money Question 💰

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🤷‍♀️ Seeking Opinions 🗳️

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👨 Oldest Daughter's Father 🎓

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🙏 An Apology Gift 🎁

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🏃‍♂️ Runaway Dad 👶

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🤷‍♀️ Missing Father 🕵️‍♂️

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🚨 Family Feud: Rich Daughter Asked to Fund Siblings' College! 💸

Well, well, well... looks like our mom's request has opened up a can of worms! 🐛 Her daughter is furious, accusing her of never learning from past parenting mistakes. 😡 But mom thinks it's not the same situation, considering her daughter's wealth. 💰 She believes asking for a favor to help the siblings isn't absurd, especially since she made it clear she'd accept a 'no.' 🤷‍♀️ The internet is buzzing with opinions on this family drama! 🐝 Some say mom's out of line, while others think the daughter should help out. 🗣️ What do you think? Is mom an a-hole for asking, or is the daughter overreacting? 🤔 Let's see what the internet has to say about this juicy situation! 🍿

Parent admitting to taking advantage of daughter gets called out.

moongirl12 | moongirl12

Parenting failure: YTA wants daughter to pick up their slack 🤪

DamnIGottaJustSay | DamnIGottaJustSay

Parent's reliance on daughter as nanny criticized. YTA verdict.

sweetjacket | sweetjacket

Santa delivers verdict: YTA for expecting daughter to pay siblings' fees

Santa_Hates_You | Santa_Hates_You

Parent admits to using daughter as second mom, earns YTA judgement.

IridianRaingem | IridianRaingem

User calls out parent for taking advantage of daughter for too long 👍

MysticMusician5 | MysticMusician5

Asking for money when you knew she was sensitive 🔥

AppellofmyEye | AppellofmyEye

Parenting fail: relying on child as second mom 🚫

kyliefer | kyliefer

Daughter calls out parent for taking advantage, stands up for self 🚨

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Parent expects daughter to pay for siblings' college, called out YTA. 🔫

foreverjae | foreverjae

YTA for burdening your daughter with being a second mom 😢

namieamie | namieamie

Parent should take responsibility for kids' college funds. YTA.

wind-river7 | wind-river7

Single mom calls out entitled parent for using daughter's success to pay for college 🔥

Bread0987654321 | Bread0987654321

Does OP only contact the daughter for favors? 🤔

Amring0 | Amring0

Demanding your daughter to be a second mom? YTA 😡

WayiiTM | WayiiTM

Disregarding daughter's feelings as a second mom 😢

lynnrichardson | lynnrichardson

Oldest child resentful of being used as a parent figure. YTA 😔

Numb3r3dDays | Numb3r3dDays

Defending struggling mother against harsh judgment, acknowledging her efforts. 👏

Opposite_Goal8122 | Opposite_Goal8122

Curious questions about the family dynamic. 🤔

BeingAliveIsPainful | BeingAliveIsPainful

Mother abuses and disrespects daughter, treating her like a wallet. YTA 👎

Brxin | Brxin

A commenter shares a relatable anecdote and calls out YTA with a laugh 😂

tomato8o | tomato8o

Don't judge OP for relying on her eldest daughter for help 🤔

busstopboxer | busstopboxer

Family financial help caused strain on daughter-parent relationship. NAH.

cantwaitforbed | cantwaitforbed

Parental overreliance on children can strain relationships. 😭

Archimedestheeducate | Archimedestheeducate

Uh-oh! YTA called out for expecting daughter to fund siblings' education

Conspiring_Bitch | Conspiring_Bitch

Daughter is not a second parent. YTA. Find baby daddy.

joazm | joazm

Single mom's fair approach to financial hardship, daughter harbors resentment. NTA.

LogicIsMyFriend | LogicIsMyFriend

Daughter financially secure, OP treated her as second parent. YTA 😱

lolat90 | lolat90

"YTA. She should never have been an option." 😭

cinderaced | cinderaced

Redditor calls out parent's overreliance on their child 🤨

TreeCityKitty | TreeCityKitty

Eldest child resentful of being second parent. Asking for tuition? YTA 😠

Kissed_By_Fire_X | Kissed_By_Fire_X

Respectful request, healthy boundaries. NAH 👍

booksandsunglasses | booksandsunglasses

Doubting the financial consultant's salary, calling BS 🤔

ImEvenBetter | ImEvenBetter

Sibling support: NTA for asking for financial help 🙏

RelevantLeg | RelevantLeg

Redditor calls out parent for shirking responsibility. 😒

depravedsquirrel | depravedsquirrel

Parent is TA for relying on daughter to raise other kids 💰

mommaczz | mommaczz

Parental entitlement and lack of support. Yikes. 🤨

travellingdink | travellingdink

YTA. Inappropriate to ask for money. Toxic behavior. Learn boundaries.

aitathrowwwwwwwww | aitathrowwwwwwwww

Daughter used as a second mom, YTA. She deserves better 😕

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User calls out parent's entitlement to free childcare and money 💰

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Parent borrowing money from child - YTA according to comment.

theexitisontheleft | theexitisontheleft

A refreshing NTA perspective on relying on family for support 👍

DarkForestGirl | DarkForestGirl

Choosing younger kids over oldest, YTA. Is she really rich?

youm3ddlingkids | youm3ddlingkids

YTA for relying on your daughter as a second mom. You ruined your relationship with her by treating her like a babysitter. Your fake apology only made things worse. 😠

nightmareonelmm | nightmareonelmm

YTA for exploiting your daughter, and she doesn't owe you anything.

synesthesiah | synesthesiah

Parent criticized for questioning college funds, called YTA.

SqquiggleCat | SqquiggleCat

Parentification gone too far. YTA and daughter deserves better. 😔

MUTHR | MUTHR

Mother admits wrong, but wants daughter to pay for siblings' education. YTA 😳

palaeastur | palaeastur

Don't rely on your daughter. Research affordable college options. 📚

alexatd | alexatd

Eldest daughter is not your partner or a step-parent. YTA 😠

Cakegirl16 | Cakegirl16

A supportive comment with practical advice. 👍

IseultTheIdle | IseultTheIdle

OP may have ruined relationship with daughter by relying heavily on her as a second mom and not respecting her boundaries. 💔

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Parentifying your child and asking for money? YTA, massively so. 😡

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Parenting your kids ruined your relationship, asking for money worsened it 😑

Lizzyrules | Lizzyrules

Daughter played second mother, but YTA for expecting too much 😑

ohgeezyouagain | ohgeezyouagain

Redditor accuses parent of being selfish and entitled 😬

More-Like-Psitta4Me | More-Like-Psitta4Me

Poverty makes parents rely on kids for economic progress. NTA.

bakedlawyer | bakedlawyer

A tough YTA comment suggests therapy to repair relationship.

risfun | risfun

Support for struggling in poverty and sibling help, but boundaries.

jeury227 | jeury227

OP may have ruined relationship with daughter over past actions. 💔

weird_cactus_mom | weird_cactus_mom

YTA for expecting daughter to pay for siblings' college expenses 😑

fr33zy_pop | fr33zy_pop

User expresses disapproval of parent's financial dependence on child.

Chr15ty | Chr15ty

Parent's selfishness is ruining their relationship with daughter. YTA 😠

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Daughter feels used for parenting younger siblings, YTA 😕

Tacorgasmic | Tacorgasmic

Harsh but fair judgment, don't make your kids parents 😕

JaneRenee | JaneRenee

Parenting or burdening? YTA needs to reconsider priorities 😒

planet_smasher | planet_smasher

Harsh comment reminds parent to take responsibility for own children.

JoahnnyUtah | JoahnnyUtah

Pushing a child into a parental role is a form of abuse 😔

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Don't burden your child, seek legal help against father 👍

Kazooguru | Kazooguru

Parent's guilt trip on daughter for babysitting YTA comment. 😡

Alicex13 | Alicex13

User mom forced daughter to be a second parent. YTA confirmed 👎

cultqueennn | cultqueennn

YTA should never have asked. You robbed her of her childhood 😒

pluckymonkeymoo | pluckymonkeymoo

User calls out parent for asking daughter to pay for college 💰

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Parent plays favorites and asks for money, YTA called out. 😱

rainbookworm | rainbookworm

Supportive comment defending single mother's actions and offering hope.

TheBigTurk106 | TheBigTurk106

Parent being called out for relying on daughter for money

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Harsh YTA comment about relying on daughter for childcare.

Sessylia | Sessylia

Parent used daughter as free child care and now wants more. YTA 😠

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Single mom criticized for not seeking child support 💰

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Parentifying daughter ruined relationship, insensitive to ask for money. YTA. 😡

Lunavixen15 | Lunavixen15

Asking your daughter to pay for her siblings? YTA 😑

Niekh03 | Niekh03

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